Sunday, April 25, 2010

My boyfriend, My best friend.

I just had a really very sweet happy night. For the first time, he came to Sunway to see me and spend time with me, instead of it always being me going to him. And the idea that Dad let him come spend time with me at home, and that he let us open a bottle of his whiskey, that tells me that maybe, just maybe Dad is beginning to accept my relationship with Solo just a bit more. And that makes me very happy.

He came with our friends, Susanna, Stanley and Bangi. I honestly can call them my friends now because that's what they have become. I love hanging out with them because they're fun. And Susanna's Malaysian too and she's dating Stanley, they've been together for like a year and a half. She even went to Zambia with Stanley and met his family all. So I feel like we can relate to each other a bit. And she's a really nice girl too. And Stanley is absolutely nice and funny. Bangi, I don't have to say much la. He's my macha. I've known him for as long as I've known Solo and I think it's safe to say we're pretty good friends. :)

Solo and I have been together for almost three months. We've known each other since last year, we were friends way before we started dating. And you know what? This is most probably my most favourite relationship I've ever been in. I feel like I'm in a stable relationship with a mature person who cares about me and respects me as a person and most importantly loves me. It's been three months and I can honestly tell you that I don't remember ever being so happy in a relationship.

He's a good guy. He holds doors open for me, he hugs me all the time, he makes me feel appreciated and loved. He makes me feel stronger than I really am because as much as I hate to admit it, I am an emotional person. Stress, fights and things that make me sad can probably make me tear up or cry. So even if my personality is strong and solid, my emotions can be weak. But he makes me want to be stronger than I really am. He used to walkaway from me or ignore me whenever I cried, but now he knows me and I'm pretty sure he understands that if I'm sad, I'm really sad. And if I cry, it's not crocodile tears, it's really crying. Now, he doesn't walkaway from me unless the reason I cry is stupid. He tries to make me laugh and feel better.

Our relationship is not perfect. We have fights and arguments and sometimes we say things that hurt each other, even unintentionally. But at the end of the day, what's important is that instead of fighting more about our problems, we talk about them. We communicate and in the end we forgive each other, kiss and make up. And those little arguments we have, that's what will make us stronger as a couple. Apart from Davi and Manda, Solo is my best friend; and I know I am his too. And there's nothing better than being in love with you're best friend.

My best friend, My boyfriend,
My darling, My lovey.
He's so many things to me.

Note; I never thought I'd be in love like this, when I look at you my mind goes on a trip. 

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