Woman Beaters.

I have a CRUSH on someone ♥

His name is Chris Brown.

=)

I know everyone might hate him because of the whole beatinguprihannathing and honestly, i feel for her. For all i know she could be a super nice girl and it really probably might not have been her fault at all that he hit her. But, Chris just has the voice of an angel. =)

But ok. the point of this post, is that, ok fine, actually i finally just thought of something to REALLY post about instead of my usual ranting about how my day was or how i feel :) lol

My view on this? Guys who hit a girl even ever so lightly should shit bricks and just die. or better yet, their balls should just shrivel, shrink and drop off.

Girls are precious beings to be cherished and loved, not beaten the shit out of. WHY do men hit women? frustration? satisfaction? what is it? maybe they're just plain stupid.

no, wait. its not a maybe. they ARE plain stupid. i hate men who beat women. i hate them. why so passionate about it? cos i've seen first hand how it affects people.

my best friend was beaten by her ex boyfriend once. and yeah she broke up with him, but still, it sorta took its toll on her. and i've seen how a man beating a woman destroys marriages. so i know. i dont like woman beaters. they should all just die. just DIE.

Woman Beaters Should Choke and DIE

But then, isnt me saying that i still love Chris Brown in spite of his womanbeating-nism, a very big contradiction of myself?

It is.

But hello. that's what humans an life are. We are all contradictions of ourselves. we are all oxymorons.

And it doesnt make a difference really cos its not like i'll ever meet Chris. If i did, i'd probably slap him. REALLY HARD. cos its fcuking stupid of him to have done some shit like that. *sigh. men nowadays. you just can't find a good one. whatever.

The thing is though, i dont think i'd ever be the girl that lets a man hit me. i learn from the mistakes of others around me. If a man ever hit me, i'd hit him back, crush his nuts, and RUN!
lol. but no seriously, i would never let myself be with a man who could ever hit me, a man that SANGGUP pukul you doesnt deserve you because he obviously doesnt appreciate the fragility of a woman.

I thank God though, that he's blessed me and that i've been lucky enough not to experience the strike of a man. To you girls out there, if you have an extremely patient man, thank your lucky stars and appreciate him more because there are surprisingly a lot of men out there who wouldnt hesitate to ever hit a woman that pisses him off. so be grateful.

And to you girls who've ever been beaten or hit by a man or are STILL with a man that hurts you physically, look deeper into your soul, find your strength and know that you ARE strong enough to walkaway. You DO have that strength because its YOUR life. HE does not control you. and dont ever let yourself think that if it was he first time it's okay just because he said he's sorry and all that rubbish. if he's done it ONCE he can, and WILL do it a second, third, forth time until you decided enough is enough.

you ARE strong enough. God's strength is in you.

I wrote this post especially for my best friend - i shall not mention names.. Why? cos she's back with that guy, the one that hit her. And it might not be a smart thing to do, to go back to a guy who's hurt you physically before. But i'm not judging. And none of you out there should judge her either because you're not in her place and you dont know the feelings she feels.

So dont judge her.

But my point is, darling (to my best friend), be smart enough to know when to walkaway. When enough is enough. If he ever hurts you again, you walkaway. and you come and tell me. and i'll hunt him down and kill him. i'll crush him. i love you boo. dont let anyone hurt you. and i havent said anything bout you getting back with him, and im not going to because i know how much you love him. but be careful. dont make the mistake i did with the last one. dont be with a guy that is willing to hurt you in ANY way.

I miss you boo.

Oh and i lied earlier people. MY crush isnt really on Chris Brown :) its on someone else! :D

Note; So you sail the world, to a grey sky morning.