Facebook Passwords and Spying on Boyfriends

I have something to blog about :D But it's kind of hard considering i'm laughing so hard right now :P
But okay.

Here's the thing, I understand that once two people are in an established relationship, they do things like buy matching rings and things like that. I even understand the whole giving each others facebook and friendster and twitter passwords to each other.

But really, here's a question : How many people ACTUALLY use said passwords to log in to their other halves profiles DAILY? -daily being the keyword here

If you were to do it once, maybe twice, that would be understandable. But see, to keep doing i constantly? Why would anyone do that? All relationships are supposed to be based on trust. IF you dont trust someone so much that you have to log into their profiles to spy on them and their friends, then why are you with that person in the first place?

I think deep down, most trust issues stem from the insecurities of ourselves. Like if you were to actually think that a boyfriend or girlfriend would cheat on you, maybe that's cos you dont think you're good enough for him/her, and if that's the case then maybe YOU should be focusing on what it is about YOURself that your so insecure about and work on that.

Doing things like spying on your other half, its not necessary and it's not on. You might as well hire a damned private investigator who'd do a better job of spying than you could. If your partner is not telling you things, which you end up finding out by spying on him like that, then there's probably a reason he or she is not telling you these thing. The first question to ask yourself in this case would be : WHY isn't he/she telling me things causing me to me spy on him?

Maybe it's cos he/she knows you'd get angry or upset or that you'd over-react or whatever. But of course, i agree that this doesnt justify their reasons for hiding things from you. HOWEVER, i do think that if you were to tone down your reactions and not be so anal about stuff, then maybe they'd open up to you more (: But, that doesnt mean you let them cross the line and do stupid things that they shouldnt be doing la. Everyone needs to know their limits right?

I'm not naming names here. But i suppose some of you would know what triggered this post and what or more specifically who exactly i'm talking about here. The thing is, I'm getting quite annoyed at being disturbed by my friend's partner who pretends to be my friend and bla bla bla. I think that's really retarded and this particular person, needs to get a life.

Spying on your partner through stupid online social networks, is not on. It's slightly sad, quite pathetic and pretty much depicts how much you suffer from Lack of Attention (LOA) disease. Grow up. If you think you're mature enough to be in a relaionship, then you should be mature enough to communicate with your partner in healthy manner. Not by doing childish shit as stated above.

Anyways. I'm bored.
Goodnight :D

oh and BTW, if you dont like your partners friends, then STOP logging into his stuff, pretending to be him and talking to his friends. others might be patient enough to put up with it, but i am not.

Toodles :)