Monday, April 12, 2010

Friendship and Love; It's the effort

I love that my boyfriend gets along with my friends. The other night, we had a little rendezvous with a few friends and I love that he gets along with my friends. He gets along really well with Manda and Davi. Like, unlike SOME shitty friends I have, these two are the ones that make the effort to be nice to him and have conversations with him. And it's good. I trust these people the most. But now, the boyfriend is also getting along really well with Zac and you know, I totally didn't expect this. I never expected that it'd be Zac who's hanging out with my boyfriend and who's planning on having drinks with him on Friday night and all that. But I'm glad it's Zac, compared to the other guys in our circle of friends, I trust Zac the most. And it makes me happy that these two get along.

The most important thing to me is always that my family is okay with my relationships and that my friends get along with my boyfriend. Because if they didn't get along, it'd be really hard to hangout and balance time with my boyfriend. And right now, in these fragile times, it's good to know that I have these friends that I can trust.

I dont really care that my other friends dont really make an effort to befriend my boyfriend even when I was and still am so nice to their boyfriends. It doesnt matter to me any more because I now know that the people that matter are there making the effort.

I am also really pleased that his friends like me too. His friends are really nice to me and I know that they approve of me. And that matters to me, that my boyfriend's friends like me and that they are my friends now too. I feel accepted among them and it's a really good feeling.

As far as I'm concerned anymore, the people that matter make an effort to be in our lives just like we make the effort to be part of their lives. That's the life.

Note; Everytime I close my eyes, I see you and me, and I know I am complete.

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