First off, let me just say that I HATE it when people make promises they're not going to keep. If you say you're going to do something, then do it. And when you've just broken a promise you made with me, dont make another promise because I'm just not going to believe you. A broken promise, is still a broken promise and it cannot be made up.
Second, I also HATE it when people screw up with my plans. Look, I'm not an obsessive person kay. I dont have OCD or whatever. But I am particular about somethings. I am particular about things being put in places where I know they are so I can look for them later. I am particular about people not taking my things without asking. I am particular about how my fringe looks. I am also particular about my plans. If I've made plans, you dont go and tokok tambah here and make your own decisions without telling me la. It's rude and so disrespectful.
Third, the thing about me is, life is simply a two way street. Give, and Take. If you want respect, you give respect kay. It's not about who gives it first, it's a matter of whether or not the respect is there. I treat everyone with respect whether or not I like them. But if I dont get that respect back in return, then I see no reason why I should even bother attending to you in any way, and that my friends, is a major way of projecting disrespect and dislike for someone.
Fourthly, I feel like people who keep complaining about their life should just suck it up and accept their lives for what it is. Look, it's YOUR life, you can do whateverthehell you want. And if you dont like something that's happening in your life, and dont sit there and moan about it. Do something about it. If your family or friends are giving you trouble, then sit down with them and have a bloody talk about it. And if at the end of the day nothing is resolved, then try to fix it with little things you can do. If someone tells you they're disappointed in you, then bloody do something about it and PROVE that you're better than they think you are. If you have "friends" who have turned and backstabbed you, then do or say something that is like a slap in the face to them (figuratively) and move the fuck on.
You people reading this, if you feel like what i've just said has hit a sore spot, you might be thinking who the hell is joanna to say these things like as if its so easy, she doesnt know what its like. Truth is, I DO know kay. I've had tons of shit happen to me in my life, and you know what at the end of it all, right up to this very point here, I am still standing strong and I can honestly tell you that nothing will break me down for good. Yeah sure, i've had my breakdowns and all, but i've risen above it and fought everything and everyone that said i couldnt.
If you're talking about family problems, been there, done that. Trust me, anyone who knows me well enough knows what my family is really like. But even then, these people that know me so well dont know half the shit that goes on within my family unit. I've had all sorts of issues my whole life, from issues with my grandma, to my father, to my dad, to my mom and sister, to my stepmom. And you know, at present time I can tell you that some of these issues have not been resolved. some are still hanging in the air, only because it hasnt got so extreme that i felt the need to deal with it. but with almost all these relationships with my family, i'm doing something about the issues and conflict we have, i'm making an effort to be a better granddaughter, daughter and sister. and yeah sure, sometimes i forget. sometimes i get so busy i forget about my family. but what matters is at the end of the day, i'm still trying to make things better. My point is, if you're not going to bother trying to make things better with your father and whatnot, then dont frikkin sit there and blog about how he hates you la and this and that. DO something about it.
If you're having issues with a friend, I've been there, and done that. Anyone who knows me in high school, or who's kept up with my blog knows that I have not had the greatest friends in the world. Look at Jo G, Psj and just last year, Sarah DICKman. :P (yes I still do that, call me immature but i find it so unfortunate for anyone to have such a last name). But see the point is, despite what every one of these people have done to me, you dont see me sitting and moaning about it. I did something about it. I told them to get the hell out of my face and I've moved on with my life. So what if some bitch says things about you, or tells your secrets to people you both know. At the end of the day, you got to realise that it's THAT person who's bringing themselves down, embarrassing themselves. and if the friends that they're bitching to about you actually believes any lies this person says about you, well think about it. one day, that person is going to be proved wrong and then he or she will be more embarrassed than you could ever be. the most important thing is to keep your head up high. dont let the things people say about you keep you down.
The biggest mistake we all make in life is to wallow in our past, our mistakes, the people that dont like us and all these kinds of things instead of embracing he good things like the future we have ahead, the life we have now, the people that DO love and care about us, and the lessons we learn from out mistakes AND more importantly the chances we have to fix what is not right.
And LEARN from them :)
Anyway, that's the end of my urge to rant. Til the next time (: I gotta get some rest man! :D
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