If after one or two months, you have already decided you've fallen in love with someone, then what do you do for the rest of your life? Even saying "I love you" is a big step to take for dating in the first few months. Yes, it's important to let that person know you care about them and that they're the only one you want to be with. But there's a difference in loving someone and being IN love with someone.
I have so many friends who have JUST gotten ito relationships, and after a month or so have decided they're in love.
There's nothing wrong with that; I mean each to his or her own. But, and this is my opinion, I just feel like it's all so.. fake. Call me jealous if you want; but this is the way I think.
And the thing about me is, I don't believe in love at first sight. Because it's not real. It's probably infatuation or attraction at first sight, but it's definately not love. Love takes time to grow. You have to know someone before you love them.
When I find the man I know i mesh well with and that I want to pursue things with, I want to like him first. I don't want to fall in love with him right away, because then I wouldnt know what to do for the rest of my life.
If I like him first, and he likes me back, then we can spend the rest of our lives falling in love with each other. And I think that makes for a hell of a lot more interesting love story. ♥
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