Dont let anyone make you do what you dont want to do.

Look, here's the plain and simple fact. Dont EVER let anyone make you do what you dont wanna do. Because at the end of the day its YOUR bloody life and it's going to affect you the most. YES, this is a blog post with an issue behind it. The issue? Plain and simple, if a guy wants you, but only if you give him something he wants in return, then you bloody well should tell him to shove off.

No matter how much you like a guy, dont ever let him walk all over you. Dont ever let him take control of you. and DONT ever let him force you into doing something you dont want to do. And remember this girls, when i say dont let him force you, i dont just mean physical force. I also mean don't let him blackmail you emotionally and force you into doing things. And yes I am talking about sex.

I know that now, everyone thinks it's okay to have sex for fun and all that shit. People think it's "cool". And I suppose if you believe that it's okay to have premarital fornications then go right ahead. I'm not promoting sex before marriage, but i do think that everyone has the freedom to choose. UNLESS you are MY family member reading this, then you DONT have the freedom to choose :P hahah.

Okay but my point is, what happens when you're in a relationship with someone, or you're dating someone who gives you an ultimatum? Something like this : "I really like you and i think we'd make a good couple. But you need to have sex with me or else i'll get bored and move on and forget about you."

Look here, i know a lot of girls would succumb to this simply because of the fear of losing someone they "love". But you know what girls? you are ALL a lot stronger than you think. The strength you have within you runs deeper than deep. You just need to reach out for it and grab it. SO WHAT if he leaves you? He's not the only guy in the world, there are a whole lot of better guys out there for you. And he's most definately NOT the best guy out there if he could possibly even give you an ultimatum like that.

Think about it this way, if a guy REALLY loves you, then sex wouldnt need to be part of it because he'd be willing to wait for you til you're married or whatever. Because, for all you know, once he's got what he wants from you, how sure can you be that he will REALLY stick around? How sure are you that he wont up and leave? And don't you want to be with the guy who loves you for YOU, not the sex he's getting from you? 

So if you're face with something like this, remember, he's not the only guy out there. So let him go. And one day, the guy that respects you and loves you for who you are, will come along and sweep youu off your feet. And the best part? He'll be willing to wait until you're married.

Just a message to my readers out there. Today, I can proudly say that I've become a strong person and not given in to someone like this. I said no to him even though I really liked him, and now I'm going to move on and live my life.