Kiss a Lot of Frogs :)

Ok fine. I'll tell you.
But only cos I'm bored.
And cos i love my readers and i think you derserve to know, especially if you check out my blog faithfully like some people i know, did i mention i love my readers? I did? well okay.
I love my readers :)

Anyways.
I realised THIS.
*drumroll please*
dadadadadadadadadadadadaDUM!

I'm young!

Yes, it's obvious and a stupid thing to realise but dont judge you cow! I'm not done yet. Sorry peepz, I've been in such a mood recently :)
Anyways.

I realised that I'm young. Not even 18 yet (two months to go btw :) just saying, you know, in case anyone wants to throw me a surprise party *wink. LOL ok seriously i'm just bored OK).
And I shouldnt be tied down in a relationship. Right?
You know how they say "you gotta kiss a lot of frogs to find prince charming?"
The things is, at this age HELLO there is no such thing as prince charming.
At this age, everyone just wants to have fun. Everyone is just experimenting with relationships and stuff.
And the thing i figured out is, why should I need to be in a relationship? Just because everyone else is?
EXCUSE ME idonthinkso!
If everyone else jumped off a bridge would I too? Of course not. I'd be standing at the top laughing at all those idiots.
See my point is, I just want to be happy.
But who says i need a boyfriend to be happy right?
My friends keep trying to hook me up with this person and that person and I just want to be like OMG STOP. I mean really, I appreciate the effort and the care and all, but you can't force attraction and all that. It has to occur naturally. So the most you can do is introduce two people, as for getting them to date, let it go. Don't be such a control freak. LET. IT. GO. trust me you SO would not want to be there IF the two people you tried to hook up ended up not working out and having a major fall out. The blame would steer in your directly, most likely.

Anyways, my point is. I'm young. :)
Why should I be tied down? I'm not willing. Especially not since I've got my studies to focus on AND tons of cute guys to look at ;)
IF I happened to find a guy that I'm willing to sacrifice things for, then MAYBE I'd consider it.
But for now, I'm happy just dating.
So everyone needs to get off my back. So what if my sister found her boyfriend a few months after she started college and has been with him ever since (FOUR years!). So what if all my friends have boyfriends and girlfriends (which they dont actually, not all anyway)? So WHAT if everyone else is going on dates with their boyfriends and girlfriends on friday nights and I'm either with the family or at cell group? SO WHAT.
It still doesnt make a difference.
So.
I think I've made my point clear here. I dont want a boyfriend, not now anyway. Give me a couple of months, maybe a year and I'll be singing a different tune. But for now, I'm happy the way I am, the way things are.
:)