It started not too long ago when a certain someone i know was heading off to Ministry of Sound for a night of fun. And I see her wiggle out of her jeans and opt to wear nothing but a black number that's meant to be worn as top - but its long enough to seem like a dress (but short enough for a sober and smart person to know its not a dress).
And up pops this simple question ; why do girls choose to dress so (i dont know how to put this nicely so i'm going to be blunt) sluttishly when they go out clubbing?
I mean, okay, some are not so bad ; a spaghetti strap top, a halter or a tube and jeans or shorts or three quarters or even a skirt, maybe even a dress. But some of these girls, the clothes they wear, ha!, they might as well wear a friggin bikini or nothing at all. here. pictures to show you :D





It seems like the lesser they wear, the sexier it is. But really, slutty is not sexy. In fact, i know guys who think it's a turn off when they see girls half-dressed in public with tons of other guys molesting them with their eyes, and sometimes god forbid, that these girls are stupid enough to allow themselves to be touched all over by random men.
There's a HUGE difference between being sexy, and being slutty. And trust me, you can be sexy without being slutty. I've see plenty of women look sexy without even for a second allowing anyone to think that they are revealing a tad too much.
Some of the outfits the wear, like the ones in the pictures above, simply scream "fuck me" to the "gentle"men around them. And you wonder why molestation and date rapes happen. Look, i'm all for the whole "a woman's body is a work of art and she should have the right to decorate it" and all that. But there are line that need not be crossed.
When women dress the way they do (half-dressed), it tempts men. And men, unlike women, are not good at fighting temptation ;)) hahha ok ok im kidding. but yeah, humans dont do well when temptaions surround them.
The simple question to ask yourself, ladies, when you dress up to go clubbing, is this : just HOW much fun are you planning on having?
If you're planning on getting frisky and horny, then by all means, slut it up. But if you're out just for a night of dancing and drinks with friends, then why dress up like you're ready to be felt up by any guy that speaks to you?
The last thing i have to say tonight, is that i think this ; Some girls need to respect themselves a tad bit more. okay, scratch that, a WHOLE lot more. Proper guys, the ones that stick around, like girls who have standards :)
Anyways, that's all for tonight :)
Goodnight world :)
2 comments:
"Some of the outfits the wear, like the ones in the pictures above, simply scream "fuck me" to the "gentle"men around them. And you wonder why molestation and date rapes happen."
Haha, You sound like my Malaysian Studies lecturer.
Anyway, while I agree that girls can look sexy without looking slutty, anytime a girl looks slutty she is almost definitely also looking sexy.
Also, if you're looking for "proper guys that stick around", a club is probably not the best place to start.
lol then i shall try pursuing a career as a malaysian studies lecturer :P
and shaun, it all depends on the eyes of the person looking. not everyone agrees that slutty is sexy. sometimes, slutty is just trashy.
and you might be surprised. there are people who go out at night to clubs and pubs to meet guys.
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