You know, you can really tell a lot about people from the things they talk about. For example, people who constantly talk about sexually related topics, you'd assume that they're very open about it. People who have conversations about serious things like faiths and beliefs, you'd assume that these people are intelligent and deep. Of course, anyone will tell you that one of the biggest mistake people make is to assume. It's true.
But like I was saying. You can tell a lot about people by the things they talk about, especially when they've been hurt or had a fight with someone they care about. Me? When I've been hurt, or someone I care about has treated me like shit, I bitch about it. Yes, I am admitting it. Oh please, get off your high horse right now. You can judge me for it, but you can't deny that you too, have probably at one time or another bitched about someone who hurt you or pissed you off. I bitch. I will say everything I've ever felt, every thing that that person said or did that pissed me off that I never mentioned before, I will roll my eyes when someone brings them up.
It's like everything about that person that annoyed you that you just overlooked because you care about them suddenly is magnified a thousand times. Anyway, it might not be the best way to deal with things, but it's easier to just kick someone out of your life, than to have to deal with them. It's not easy for me to turn my back on friends or people that i once cared a lot about, but if I have to I will. And I bitch, that's how I deal with it. It's not a great solution, but it's my way of venting.
I love having some of the friends I have now because some of them, actually will let me vent when I'm on the phone with them. The other night, I was home alone and preparing for a presentation. I was uber pissed off because I felt like some people just weren't pulling their weight for an assignment but at the same time, they can criticise and complain about the work I did. I was so pissed off, I called one of my close friends and I just screamed and screamed. Mind you, it's tough when you barely have a voice due to a throat infection. Fun. I love this friend okay, she just let me scream and yell and she even laughed at me.
Thing is, screaming profanities and yelling everything that I was angry about, made me feel better after that. Bitching about something that really upsets you, helps. The best thing, is to do it with someone who will just agree with everything you say. Girls do it all the time. When you need to bitch about your boyfriend's ex who's been writing on his Facebook wall, when the guy you've just started dating stands you up on a date, when you find out your sister 'borrowed' your favourite pair of earrings on the night of your big, important date, who do you go to? Your girlfriends. Why? Because you know they'll agree with you, to a certain extent.
Anyway, my point is, that sometimes, talking about something makes it feel a little bit better. Screaming about something when you're home alone, makes it feel a little bit better. But remember, it doesn't exactly solve the whole problem or whatever issue you have. It just makes it feel better for awhile.
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